Rachel, what about Christmas cards? The writer works at a mid-size media agency and wonders who she should be sending cards to. She doesn't want to buy 100 cards.   Rachel, help me end this gift business Each year she's called upon to give a present to a co-worker at her agency. She hates it. Rachel offers up the perfect solution.   Rachel, help, this woman turns me off The writer is interviewing at an agency she really likes, but her prospective boss is a cold fish. Should she take the job?   Rachel, I'm wondering about a bonus The writer wants to know of a tactful way to ask whether she'll get one this year, considering how tough things are out there   Rachel, help, I'm worried for my job The writer went through a bad spell at her job and now she worries about being laid off. What can she do to keep her job?   Rachel, who can I use as references? The writer has worked at just one agency and wants to know the best people to use. Rachel explains the do's and don'ts.   Rachel, help, how do I let people go? The writer has just gotten a promotion to supervisor, and the job will entail laying off staffers because of the sinking economy   Rachel, my supervisor's out of control She's also the writer's very good friend, and she's carrying on a wild office affair. Rachel counsels what to do--and what not.   Rachel, help me to find a headhunter The writer wants to know: Do I need a referral? Rachel explains how to go about finding a good one--and what to watch out for   Rachel, help, I'm pregnant and single The writer works at a large agency in New York, and she fears the reaction of her boss, who's a born-again, when she finds out next >>